“I found out from SHWASHWI (local newspaper about celebrity gossip) that my boyfriend of 5yrs was in a relationship with someone else for 10Yrs, whilst he was still with me … IMAGINE!!! 𤣠They has a picture of the together, at an event … she was number 6, he had been cheating on me with 5 other women before her. š³ I called My Day One (my grandmother) in tears and never was I ready for her response! She said, āDonāt you dare cry! Have I not taught you never to depend on a man!ā š„ŗ I literally stopped crying same time. I was dependent on the man because he made me quit my well paying job because he said he wanted to take care of me financially, I got to work one day and my boss called me in … told me that my boyfriend had paid him a visit to tell him that I would no longer be working for him. š„“ That time, I had no idea that he was going to meet with my boss or that I was resigning from a job that he didnāt get me. It took me another 5yrs to get over my boyfriend who was in a relationship with someone else. 𤣠Also, I never read SHWASHI ever again and I never took him back again … BUT he still texts me again and again … I should tell his WIFE, the wife who was his side chick, when he was still with me!!! š”
Zoleka Mandela opens up about being cheated on
Zolekala who is on a serious weight loss hour and fitness journey shared her experience with men from one of her past relationships. In her post that she shared a question for many to to provide answers to, the question was “Ladies what’s the worst way you count out you were being cheated on? This is a safe place”.
The breast cancer survivor replied under the post and said; she found out that her boyfriend at the time was cheating, through her local newspaper. She had been dating the man for five years only to find out that her boyfriend had also been in a relationship with someone else for ten years.
Her boyfriend had cheated with five other women. After facing the heartbreak, she called her grandmother and her grandmother responded by telling her not to cry for a man since she had taught her not to even cry for a man and never be dependent on a man. She became dependent on him after he made her stop working. She said it took her five years to get over him and she never read the newspaper again.
This is what she Zoleka Mandela shared: